Not sure where to start?
Most people who call Ruth aren’t sure mediation is the right step. That’s exactly what the first conversation is for. No pressure, no commitment, just 15 minutes to talk through your situation and figure out if this is a good fit.
The Door Is Open, In Person or Online.
After the introductory conversation, you can schedule your first mediation appointment at a time that’s convenient for you and the other parties. Each session is up to two hours long, and must include all parties. Often, you’ll only need one mediation session, but more complex situations may require additional conversations to settle on an agreement that feels like a win for all parties.
Ruth has multiple in-person meeting spaces located throughout the greater St. Louis area, as well as Franklin, Warren, Lincoln, and St. Charles County, Missouri. If distance or scheduling make meeting in person tricky, virtual sessions are available.
Frequently Asked Questions
Mediation is a structured conversation guided by a neutral third party. Unlike a judge or arbitrator, a mediator doesn’t make decisions for you. Instead, Ruth helps all parties communicate more effectively and work toward an agreement everyone can live with. It’s a voluntary process, and you stay in control of the outcome.
How is mediation different from going to court?
Court is adversarial by design. There’s a winner and a loser, and the process is often expensive, slow, and public. Mediation is collaborative. It’s typically faster, significantly less costly, and confidential. Many people also find that agreements reached through mediation are easier to follow through on, because they helped create them.
What kinds of disputes can mediation help with?
Ruth works with families navigating divorce, child custody, and elder care decisions, as well as businesses dealing with workplace conflict, partner disputes, and organizational change. If you’re not sure whether your situation is a good fit, the free 15-minute call is the best place to start.
How long does a mediation session take?
Most sessions run about two hours. Some situations take more, some less; it depends on the complexity of the conflict and how prepared both parties are to have the conversation.
What happens in the first session?
Before scheduling a session, Ruth offers a free 15-minute call to learn more and make sure mediation is a good fit. If it is, all parties come together for a two-hour session where Ruth guides the conversation, ensures every voice is heard, and helps the group work toward a resolution.
Yes. Mediation works because both sides choose to be there. If you’re not sure how to bring it up, that’s something Ruth can help you think through on your free 15-minute call.
What does mediation cost?
Lawyers bill anywhere from $250 to $500 an hour, and that’s before court costs and filing fees. Mediation is $330 per session. Each session is approximately 30 minutes to two hours in duration, and oftentimes an agreement can be reached in a single session.
Do I need a lawyer?
No. Mediation is designed to help both parties reach an agreement without legal representation, though you’re welcome to consult one before or after.
What if we can’t reach an agreement?
Mediation is voluntary, and no one is required to sign anything they’re not comfortable with. If an agreement isn’t reached, we can schedule another session, or parties are free to pursue other options, including traditional legal action. That said, most people are surprised by what becomes possible when a neutral third party helps guide the conversation.
Is mediation available virtually?
Yes. Sessions are available both virtually and in person at Ruth’s office spaces located throughout the greater St. Louis area, as well as Franklin, Warren, Lincoln, and St. Charles County, Missouri.
